Alisha - posted on 07/08/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
I have 3 step sons and 3 of my own. We have chores and rules at our house. My step sons mother lets just say cant say no dosent make them clean up after themselves and caves second one of them start yelling at her (which is all the time) but what gets me is when their father or i tell them no we get well mommy will say yes or they go to room start throwing things and fight with us to do chores well we dont have to at mommys so why do we here and now shes paying them for chores they do here??? (With us half the week) when she comes to drop them off she wants to stay and play with them ends up here an hr. Or two sometimes and wont leave and kids are horrible when she is around when she leaves they are so much better and when she dosent like one of our rules shes constantly threatening to take my significant other back to court for full custody and he gets all upset hes so involved in their lives amd our kids lives and even my daughter whoch os his step daighters life its amazing but how do we deal with the mom who never can say no and seems to think she can run house our house as well always ends up in an argument and still talks to kids like their 2! They are 8, 10, and 13.