Natalie - posted on 10/12/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
15 YRs of disrespect ... This started it what to do ?
I have a boat and myself (stepmom) bio father an bio son went to another yacht club with my father n his boat . Son was 10 at the time and he was put down to bed at the time 10pm so we went up to grab food and drink. Within n hour his father went and checked on him he didn't come back so I went down to check with my father . Father was upset yelling at xwife because son called his bio mother and said we locked him in the cabin ? Really !!!! Then he said there were bugs ( mind u this was a 5 yr old 34' boat with top of the line amenities ) sprayed bug spray on my walls which ruined the decor on my walls (100k cost on the boat) I was furious for being accused of locking a child up and ruining my walls within my cabin . In The end the father said we never should have ran up there and we were wrong and coddled his child and never paid for the damage . I have a bio son and we r 500 feet away at yacht clubs and everyone does this . Now 15 years later it's so bad that I am considering leaving because his son now 22 is rude to me and will not come to family functions. To make it worse I kicked him out a year ago because when my husband took his parents to their winter place in florida his son came down n brought his bio mother. I was not told and found pics on his computer kicked him out . 6 months ago I went to dinner and I decided to give it a chance .... All is well bio son loves him but doesn't respect what he did to me and his family told me it was wrong and love me . My family is reserved on their feelings. I don't know what to do... Do I walk or should I have him live separate and we just date ? Everything is great with us but his son is rude to me and now he is getting ready to rent one of his dad's places which is a farm by his entire family and the bio mom is out there all the time doing things to property that is not even the sons it's ours ???