Felicia - posted on 08/17/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
Me and my husband have been married a year and I have 4 kids ages 13 a girl, then three boys 11,10 and 7. My husband has a 10 yr old son whom at first wanted to come over and spend time all the time, then as he noticed us staying together and married he rarely comes over. The worst part is his dad's parents live next door to us and they have spoiled him and pay no attention to any form of structure. If he calls they go get him even if it is his home time with his mom. He runs the shows e . have implemented rules for all the kids in the house but he is made to follow none, not even by my husband. I feel this is not fair to the others. Now if he comes over it is very short, he never spends the night and leaves without saying a word, just goes in next door. Feel we are being disrespected. Me and my husband argue about this sometimes and I have been told by his mom that it is none of my business, but I feel it is because we are married and it is my house also. He doesn't help pick up toys, he says it's not his room, but he has a bed and toy box in there. He tells his grandfather that he has to fight the other kids for his dad's attention, which is a lie, 18th etc y don't hang on my husband. He tells his grandparents his dad don't love him anymore or will take sick at their house so they call his dad over, which now I go over too and then the fake sick stopped because he didn't get daddy all to himself. I'm tired of people being manipulated by him. What can I do?