Kim - posted on 01/27/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hello I was wondering if anyone has some insight on having a very jealous nine year stepdaughter. I've been with h her father for four years and does not discipline his children.We have his nineteen and twenty three year old living in with us.The nine year old comes over every other weekend. My grandchildren ages seven and five come as well.His daughter is treated the same as my grandchildren. She is never satisfied .She is always whining for more and constantly having issues with my grandkids.I try to be understanding,but it is becoming very frustrating. She goes home on Sunday and by Monday her mother is calling to air her complaints. My husband is not telling her the whole story.Her new husband is very strick and he doesn't want her to get into trouble.I'm actually thinking of separating weekends with the kids.Unfortunately my hubby and I only have 2 weekends a month to spend our time together.please any suggestions would be appreciated. I might add to that the mother has had very little contact with the older children that live with us.