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Elizabeth - posted on 09/23/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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What do I do the man I'm with we just had a baby 6 months ago and hea has two other kids 2 and 4 how do I get them to respect me.

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Betsy - posted on 09/23/2014

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when my little one was 6 months I left my ex boyfriend and stayed with my sister she had a five year old and a three year old both helped me alot they toke turns and helped me with the baby one was on diaper protoll and the other one did the baby power then they would take turns both helped out alot

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Oddxbabexout - posted on 09/23/2014

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How do you get the children to respect you?

Well, if this is your only concern, then you're in for a LONG haul. They're toddlers..you can't demand respect from a toddler.

Be kind, be playful, respect THEM and the fact that THEIR father was THEIRS first.

I don't know your entire situation and I am last to judge anyone if I can help it. I try to remain as objective as possible..but in all reality, he just had a third child, I am assuming out of wedlock, with a completely different woman..only six months ago..and as long as that may SEEM, it is no time at all when you have a child...let alone three.

Look at the example he is setting for his children...if HE respected you, or their mother respected you...they would...

But these things take time...and dedication ..and patience.

Wait, and just...TRY.

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