Still In Love
Raye - posted on 01/23/2015
It's been long enough he may have become more responsible. Has he apologized for cheating on you? Does it seem like he would do that to someone again if the opportunity came up? Does he make jokes that seem like he would still behave in that way? If you are with him in public, does he look at other girls, or does he focus on your conversation? You're right to be cautious. Cheating is a huge betrayal and you need to decide if he's adequately rebuilt that trust.
If you're wanting a relationship and you're on friendly terms with him, you could just ask him his feelings toward you. If you want to be more subtle, ask him when he thinks he might start dating again, and see where the conversation goes from there.
Jessica - posted on 01/22/2015
Me and my daughters father split up over 9 years ago when i saw him with another woman, one thing that i absoulty can not and will not tolerate. After a year i finally began to let go of the anger i felt towards him for stepping out on me n we developed a wonderful relationship yet again, for the sake of our daughter. I have been in two other relationships since then. But for the past year i have been growing feelings for him that i felt before our break up.Recently we both went through a break that occured around the same time which was weird. Lately we've been talking and just enjoying each others company. I dnt now wht to do. He the only man that just makes my heart sink. I love him and i think im fall in love with him all over again but i afraid because of what happen before.
Raye - posted on 01/22/2015
Why are you not together?
How did he treat you?
How long have you been apart?
What do you think he feels for you?
We need more details in order to provide advice.
Generally it doesn't turn out well to go back to an ex. There was a reason you broke up, and, depending on how much time has passed, it's probable that circumstances would not be very different the second time around. If he's a jerk and you're still in love, then you're better off to let your feelings go and try to move on with your life.
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