Laura - posted on 05/17/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
I got pregnant after a guy lured me in while I was intoxicated and then ejaculated in me while I was asleep. He later bragged about getting me pregnant. Anyways, I have an amazing daughter (2.5 mos) that I wouldn't trade for the world. However, I was just informed that this guy is going to put himself on child support so he can gain visitation. And here's the problem...after I found out I was pregnant, I did some research on this guy...and learned a few things.
To start with, at first I invited him to doctors appointments (before I was scared by all the info below). He didn't attend one. He would stay up til 4 am in his "rap studio" and not show up. He asked me for money multiple times so he could go party, he would show up at my house drunk, and he even discussed that he should be the main parent so we could get food stamps and money....? No.
To make matters worse....
He was arrested for lewd and lascivious behavior 2 years ago but it was plead down to a felony battery. Ew. Apparently he was naked with a 15 yr old. HOW would they lessen that charge? He is 27.
He sells drugs and does drugs. He loosely refers to it on twitter...his page is public.
His house is also his studio where he entertains the scum of our town. Real dangerous people known for drugs and violence.
His predator mentality doesn't stop at his previous charge...in the past year he has dated 3 girls that were fresh out of high school. These relationships are all openly volatile (again, on twitter) with some violence/property damage.
I am so scared that he will try and get visitation rights and something will happen to my baby in his care. She is my world!!
What can I do?? He is not on birth certificate, and doesn't have established paternity yet.