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Cindy - posted on 08/29/2015 ( 26 moms have responded )

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My son is 7 yrs old still pee poops on himself at school home I've tried everyt I need help any ideas I'm stressed bad

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Sarah - posted on 08/31/2015

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You are in a tough spot. It sound like you've done the right hinge medically. Now, you need to find out why? Try a teaching facility like the Mayo Clinic or University of Chicago. Where do you live I may be able to find a referral. Have you tired ignoring it and just let him be responsible for the the clean up?

Sarah - posted on 08/30/2015

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I wondered what your son had to say of his behavior. Maybe he does have some sort of nerve or sensory issue that makes it so he isn't aware of the sensation to go?

Cindy - posted on 08/29/2015

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Who son or Dr? My son knows he's doing bad but tells me he can't feel when he needs go pee or poop than next min he run bathroom pee or pretented to pee

Sarah - posted on 08/29/2015

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He may need to go thru a whole bowel and bladder training program. At 7 he can talk why does he say he does it?

Sarah - posted on 08/29/2015

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Then the only advice I can give is take him to a good pediatric psychiatrist and get at the root of the problem.

Cindy - posted on 08/29/2015

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Ohh no he's never been harmed he stays with me at all times he goes school home I don't let him play with any kids around nebhior hood cause we live in bad area but his dad does have temper but never has harmed him idk if that scares him he told me he does but this school yr he doing good at school but as soon I pick him up he wets himself poops through evening but bed time no he wears pull up so idk I'm at lost I've tried everyt I can think of

Sarah - posted on 08/29/2015

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Pooping in your pants is never normal at 7. Unless he is sick with diarrhea. In that case he may not be able to hold it. Deliberately defecating in his pants as well as voiding in his pants is a sign of a serious problem. I make no assumptions but this behavior is hallmark or for child that has been sexually assaulted.

Cindy - posted on 08/29/2015

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Said its normal he's fine he was clogged got that fixed but drs want listen school wanted call DCF on us we are trying yes he wears pull ups cause it gets everywhere

Jodi - posted on 08/29/2015

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I would suggest a child psychologist too. At 7 years old, this is not in any way normal behaviour. Particularly the pooping. What did the doctor say?

Sarah - posted on 08/29/2015

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have you tried a child psychologist? Something is motivating him to do this.

Sarah - posted on 08/29/2015

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Good question, as by this age a 7 year old would have well developed sense of privacy and autonomy in the restroom. Does something trigger it?

Cindy - posted on 08/29/2015

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Yes I've tried every 30 mins took him Dr says he fine took toys TV Xbox away nothing helps time out nothing

Sarah - posted on 08/29/2015

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Has he ever been consistent using the toilet? What have you tried so far?

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