Struggling...with my relationship

Adina - posted on 09/09/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have posted before and me thinking my boyfriend of 7 years, and the father of my two daughters was cheating on me. Well, the other night I talked to her. She told me they did have sex, and she has even been in my home. She told me the setup of my house. Which the living room you can see front the sidewalk because of the window. She told me he used to call her everytime I left him which to my understanding at the time we wasnt really broke up, I just needed time after our fights. She also told me that he was starting to fall in love with her and he didnt want to see her anymore because of it, She said he wanted to make his family work since I was pregant again. He use to shoot pool on Wensdays, I never went. She said he would always want her to meet him at the bars he shot at. She said alot more things...

I am not making excuses but she does live across the street, I have known her since I was in elemtery school. She has always been a trouble maker. Everytime we are outside she goes and sits on her front steps and just watches us. Everyone even her own family says she likes to start problems.

I want to believe him, he says he has never slept with her ever. She is nasty very nasty. He says why would be risk getting an STD from someone and loosing his family. So I am just lost I am still with him, he says he wont go fishing without me anymore or shoot pool. He will do everything in his power to prove to me he isnt and has never cheated on me.

He is a great person, he has a great job, he loves his girls. He loves me....

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Adina - posted on 09/09/2012

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Right I get where your coming from. And I am not sure how it happend. I just dont want to loose my family. I just had our second baby and shes only three months...its soo hard.

Vicki - posted on 09/09/2012

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If you feel it in your gut that hes lying then more than likely he is!!! Someone that is trully faithful just would be cought up in accusations they just wouldnt put themselves in that situation to even be questioned.

Adina - posted on 09/09/2012

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I feel like if a female is so obsested with a man they had to have slept together. Why else would a female be like she is? Unless she does she what we have and that we are happy so thats makes her want him. I mean he is a very good looking man. I just think its sooo nasty if they have been together. I am not just saying shes nasty because I hate her, she is for real nasty.

Adina - posted on 09/09/2012

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I wondered the same thing. We have left the front door unlocked or the left the back door open when we have been gone. So he said she might have came into our house and looked around. I think thats kind of odd. I mean yes she does live right across the street from us and you do notice things that go on. But some of the things she said to me know once else knew but him. So its like how did she know. And all he could say is she is a good lier. He even puts it on his kids and mom that passed away. I just dont know I want to believe him I really do. He is the love of my life. She said he told her he is only with me because he didnt want to loose his daughter(we only had one at the time.) I mean she is telling me he cheated on me when I was pregant with his child we planned out, and even when she was a baby! I feel in my gut that she isnt lieing but I dont know if its just my mind....

Vicki - posted on 09/09/2012

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Of course he would deny sleeping with her! It's very rare that a man do admit it. I question how she has seen the inside of your home? Why is he even involved in this kind of drama to begin with if hes innocent?

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