Adina - posted on 09/09/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )
I have posted before and me thinking my boyfriend of 7 years, and the father of my two daughters was cheating on me. Well, the other night I talked to her. She told me they did have sex, and she has even been in my home. She told me the setup of my house. Which the living room you can see front the sidewalk because of the window. She told me he used to call her everytime I left him which to my understanding at the time we wasnt really broke up, I just needed time after our fights. She also told me that he was starting to fall in love with her and he didnt want to see her anymore because of it, She said he wanted to make his family work since I was pregant again. He use to shoot pool on Wensdays, I never went. She said he would always want her to meet him at the bars he shot at. She said alot more things...
I am not making excuses but she does live across the street, I have known her since I was in elemtery school. She has always been a trouble maker. Everytime we are outside she goes and sits on her front steps and just watches us. Everyone even her own family says she likes to start problems.
I want to believe him, he says he has never slept with her ever. She is nasty very nasty. He says why would be risk getting an STD from someone and loosing his family. So I am just lost I am still with him, he says he wont go fishing without me anymore or shoot pool. He will do everything in his power to prove to me he isnt and has never cheated on me.
He is a great person, he has a great job, he loves his girls. He loves me....