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Wasi - posted on 02/09/2016 ( 20 moms have responded )

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i need some suggestion ,i m 30 years single working mom and with 2 kids.and i love to spend time with my bf mostly in night time ,sometimes daily nights. but my young daughter also want spend time with my bf,she want that my bf play with both of us,as my daughter has also her bf,,and as i am working mom,my bf not let me sleep all night,from night to morning he keep awake me,,these are 2 problems,,is any solution for this

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Raye - posted on 02/10/2016

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Dove, If this is for real (she's "30 years" but has a 17 year old daughter?) I think the boyfriend might be sexually abusing Wasi, too. No means NO. If he can't stop trying to have sex with her, then she needs to kick him out of the room (and maybe out of the house). If they're not married, then it might be best for him to live somewhere else, and only come over when they have a "date", then go back to his place so she can get some sleep.

ANY sexual relationship with Wasi's boyfriend and her daughters is wrong, and if ANYONE in this situation is wanting that to happen, then he needs to be GONE! The daughter needs to understand that it's wrong. Wasi needs to protect her kids and make sure they're not having sexual encounters. Even the 17 year old and her boyfriend should not be having sex. And they should not have any sexual "play" with the younger daughter.

This is too messed up. I think Wasi needs counseling.

Jodi - posted on 02/10/2016

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I'm looking through this person's posts and I'm going with troll.

Dove - posted on 02/10/2016

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Oh wow... How did I not register the 'I'm 30' and my daughter is 17 part? Yikes...


If this is legit... boyfriend needs to be history and mother and daughter need serious professional help.

If this is not legit... find somewhere else to play.

Sarah - posted on 02/10/2016

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Dove I don't know how you understand this post? it makes so little sense to me. I interpret that the BF wants sex with mom and the daughter?
What does this mean?:
"but as she start dating with her bf,then i feel she like 2, 3 sums," and this "why my daughter want that my bf also play with him, i try to take away her many times,but its much difficult to manage it all. my bf also keep away with my daughter,but after daughter remain angry with me ,not eat,no talk with me,,so she told me many times that she want be bed with me with my bf,"
what the heck does that mean?
Your BF needs to learn that no means no, if you are too tired for sex, then too bad for him. You are only human and you need sleep.

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Sarah - posted on 02/12/2016

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It really doesn't make sense at all. this story is perverse, and I call troll. Your own daughter wants in on her mother's sexual activity. Really? No way

Dove - posted on 02/12/2016

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No one understands your problem because you don't make any sense. From everything you've said you and your daughter both need some serious therapy. So quit trolling and go get it.

Wasi - posted on 02/12/2016

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well, i m thanks to person who understand my problem,,i only want my daughter remain away from us during me with my bf enjjoyment time, ,my gf has her on bf, she is too young,,and she has young bf, she has not experienced of hard experience men, and i am sorry,by mistake i mention my age 30,its 36.not 30, and i m not gonaa involve in marriage relation agai,so i only like bf,,and he is with me many years passed,about 10,years

Dove - posted on 02/10/2016

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Oh gross... I just did that too. I think I need to bleach my eyeballs.

Dove - posted on 02/10/2016

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Either that or the boyfriend has been sexually abusing her daughter... so now the daughter knows no boundaries...?

I'm lost.

Dove - posted on 02/10/2016

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I don't really... I'm just guessing bits and pieces.

From what I'm gathering now though... her daughter wants to have a threesome w/ either her mother and her mother's boyfriend... or the daughter's boyfriend and the mother's boyfriend.... and the mother's boyfriend wants to keep the mother up all night w/ sex, but telling him no or breaking up w/ him is out of the question.

I'm REALLY hoping this is a troll w/ English as a second language.... otherwise this is one of the most disturbing things I've read in a LONG time....

Dove - posted on 02/10/2016

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Then live your life and don't ask for help... because apparently you don't actually want things to be different.

Wasi - posted on 02/10/2016

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its not like that, no one is toy for each other, i attracted towrds his side, and its all life relation,not only for some years, and second, my daughter in early age not behave like this, but as she start dating with her bf,then i feel she like 2, 3 sums,

Dove - posted on 02/10/2016

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Then break up w/ him... or let him keep using you as a sex toy. If you want to sleep tell him NO. If he won't stop tell him to go sleep on the couch and have fun w/ himself and leave you in peace.

You asked for solutions, but if you aren't willing to DO the solution... what do you want? This guy has been around for a decade... he's not going to change.

Oh wow... I just really read and understood what you are saying... it sounds like your 17 year old is having a relationship w/ your boyfriend as well.

Get OUT of this relationship. Take back your life and your sanity.

Wasi - posted on 02/10/2016

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and second problem,,when we ready for sleep after sex, my bf not let me sleep,he keeps trying to keep me turn on agin again and again

Wasi - posted on 02/10/2016

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since 10 years he is with me and not commited in marriage relation , i love her and he is amost in my life, and problem is my daughter is 17 years, so she has bf,when her bf came to meet my daughter i never disturb them,they play, fun, whatever they want they do,,,but i dont know whats problm
why my daughter want that my bf also play with him, i try to take away her many times,but its much difficult to manage it all. my bf also keep away with my daughter,but after daughter remain angry with me ,not eat,no talk with me,,so she told me many times that she want be bed with me with my bf,

Wasi - posted on 02/10/2016

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since 10 years he is with me and not commited in marriage relation , i love her and he is amost in my life, and problem is my daughter is 17 years, so she has bf,when her bf came to meet my daughter i never disturb them,they play, fun, whatever they want they do,,,but i dont know whats problm,why my daughter want that my bf also play with him, i try to take away her many times,but its much difficult to manage it all. my bf also keep away with my daughter,but after daughter remain angry with me ,not eat,no talk with me,,so she told me many times that she want be bed with me with my bf,

Wasi - posted on 02/10/2016

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no,no break up, i just love her, and during night time after make love,when i slept he remain active and loving me,i try m,any times to stop him,but he keep loving

Dove - posted on 02/10/2016

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I'm really not understanding what you are saying except the boyfriend is keeping you awake all night... in which case I would break up w/ him.

Raye - posted on 02/10/2016

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Are you in a committed relationship with this guy? Or is it just sex? If you're not in a long-term, committed relationship, then don't let your kids get attached to your BF. If you break up, they will be heartbroken. If you are committed to each other, then the BF can spend time with all of you as a family, and have some time with each child playing a game, or doing something fun to have a good (fatherly) relationship with them.

I don't know what you mean by "as my daughter has also her bf"... how old are your children, and which daughter has her own BF?

Also, why does your BF not let you sleep? Is he doing things on purpose to keep you awake?

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