Katie - posted on 01/10/2011 ( 12 moms have responded )
For the past year I have been dealing with my mother taking my son on false pretenses. We were taken through the court system to settle the matter in which we had no lawyer (nor could afford one) and the court system seemed in favor of my mother the entire time. We have had our son back for a while now and our case is finally over but the judge put EXIT ORDERS on us stating that we must continue the VISITATIONS and extend them for six days every four weeks for the next three years, hair follicle testing every four months and to send my son to a therapist that he doesn't need to see. We are a one income family, I have stayed at home since my kids were born. But every time that my son goes to his visitations he gets so confused and totally doesn't understand what is going on, hes a different little boy every time. We get him back to normal by the time he has to go to another "visitations". This is just not fair to my son, I never married the lady she just gave birth to me and the thing is I never said she couldn't see my son the entire time but yet she still thinks that I am a bad person when I have proven myself innocent! I need help to figure out what to do, I live in Nevada and she and our case is in California. Please Any suggestions would help.