Maddy - posted on 06/05/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
I am a single mom of a 6 yr old and need advice on how i can state good reason for watching to change a 3 week summer vacation ( 2 consecutive) one extra) to a 2 or 3 weeks non consecutive vacation with father. Last summer he flew to with my son to see his parents and family and later that summer my son told me he nearly drowned. That daddy was not around and that his aunt saved him. I was shocked and angry. Yet due to many problems at that time I did not bring it up to court. Now the year has passed and he's asking to take him ( local ) again yet wont say exactly where. I am super stressed and anxious and think I may need to file an emergency motion. He wants him july 1- 15 and I know my son wont eat the same because many times he skips giving him lunch, my son comes constipated. He is also asthmatic so this concerns me too. He cares or him, yet not as vigilant as I am with him. After the beach incident I can't even think of letting him go that long. I need help please - my son needs to be with me more.
I will add that his father still sleeps with him ( same bed) even though I made him sign that no adult should sleep with him. that ne must have his own separate bed....and still he deviates from what he signed in court order.. He does not work and is former military. IChild support is just 280 a month and I need an increase too because that is nothing.