Lee - posted on 02/17/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )
hello all I am new here. I have full final custody of my grandson and the mom was granted supervised access that she didn't not have any interest in for the past 7 months. She jsut recently wanted to start to supervised visits so they have been set up. the child is not 7 months older and has a sever sepertion anxiety from me and they are so extreme that there is nowwhere i can go without the child. His mom dragged us through a very lengthy court battle and in the end never showed up to the last 2 court dates and made it very easy for us to prove she was not reliable. So I don't knwo much about supervised access in ontario and have been assured that it is safe but I have my doubts with a child who can't leave my sight for 5 mins will do well with this access. Whent he final court order was given to me with final custody a leave was granted for bio mom to bring a motion forward for unsupervised access. My question is how long of supervised access would it take before a judge would consider unsupervised and what would she have to do to get them? Hope this makes sense. also found out she is now expecting anotehr child from a new guy and nothing in her life ahs changed in the postive from when we took her to court to prove her unfit to raise our grandchild.