Samantha Lillian - posted on 12/12/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
My son was born on Oct 26, 2013. During the 8 months I knew I was pregnant his father came to maybe 5 doctors appointments, provided no help (buying things for our son) or just being supportive in general. He even went as far as leaving me at my doctors appt. He has been physically, and emotionally abusive especially while intoxicated. I found out about two months prior to giving birth he got married to a woman he has known 3 months max. I took it upon myself to message her and find out a bit about her.. She at the time seemed like someone I would no doubt trust my child around, and then after I had messaged him telling him that his ex fiance prior to her and myself said she was pregnant by him I asked him about it, he denied and I was told by his now wife I was just trying to start drama so I let it be.. I was then told by text "He did not want you to have his child, you should of respected his wishes" and "I'd wish you'd just permanently stay out of his life". She went from being a person I would trust too wondering how the heck am I supposed to trust someone who wants me out of his life, and in a nut shell told me I should of just aborted him because he wasn't wanted by him with me..
What I wanna know is am I wrong for saying she is no longer allowed around him? Which means no over nights with him, and only visitation.. I am not trying to hurt him or punish him for what she said but I don't trust someone who would say that around my son and I wouldn't want her around him (my son) unless I was present.?