Lucy - posted on 11/11/2008 ( 11 moms have responded )
me and my partner recently gained custordy of his 2 children. caitlan who is 5 & kieran who is 3, we also have a 13mth old together ebony-rae. before the children moved in with us their mother changed caitlans surname when she was aged 3 1/2, we are trying to get it changed back in court as she is very upset with having her name changed, when i talk to her about it been double barrelled (lewis-stamp) she becomes very aggressive hitting punching and shouting at me MY NAMES CAITLAN LEWIS NOT CAITLAN STAMP. how do i approach this matter as it's looking like it's going to have to be double barrelled as her mother won't agree to changing it back. i'm at my wits end.. it's heartbreaking because she's not normally an aggressive little girl. she normally shows so much love and respect to me as if i were her mum.. she wont have anything to do with her real mum. i've been in her life since she was 1week old. HELP!!