Christina - posted on 08/26/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
We have a family member that is in the hospital, she is 26 and had a stoke and is paralized(hopefully just for now). We want to vist her, but we have a hard time finding a sitter. She is in the hospital almost 2 hours away, so it is hard for me to go one night and my husband to go another. I am nervous about both the germs in the hospital as well as he seeing the person this sick so young. My husband thinks it is a part of life and we should bring her, and that it will even lift the spirits of the family member, which I am sure it will. But I am just afraid it is to much for her to process.
I am looking for suggestions/advice.