Alice - posted on 01/05/2012 ( 8 moms have responded )
The father and I havent spoken since august and my son is turning 7 months now, he and his hole family believe I was cheating on him while we were together and dont believe the child is his. The last we talked he threatened to take me to court ( I realize he was bluffing) but I got scared and said if he didnt believe my son was his I would leave an never come back. I pretty much took the chicken way out but now I feel God is moving me to take him to court and do the right thing by allowing him to see his son. He was a complete jerk, throu my pregnancy an left me mean messages on facebook while his aunt openly claimed her hatred of me on there as well. I got all the evidence of it, but the only thing I'm afraid of is I don't want him taking my child up north with him if I do, he lives over 2 hrs away and I cannot bare to have my child away from me for even a night, he sleeps in bed with me each night and wont sleep with out me so we'd both have fitful nights. Would I be able to get full rights, if I don't ask for child support and be given the authority to be the one to decide when and where visitations would be and have them supervised? He's not on the birth certificate btw and my son does not have his last name.