Sara - posted on 11/09/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )
Hello everyone, im dealing with somthing that i have no idea how to handle any kind advice would be appreciated.
My daughter is 4 years old and has never met her bio dad.I had a one Night stand kinda thing and ended up gettint knocked up in 2012, I tried to make it work with my daughters dad but he was extermly abusive and on drugs, he soon droped of the face of the earth. Just last year in june he sued me for custody, while i was 7 months prego with my new husband. Anyways he didnt get anything, but we have to talk to talking parents, where he can slowley come into my daughters life. MY problem is that he wants to see her all the time and im having a hard accepting it, im happily married know with two kids my daughter in love with her step dad who she calls dad.And i dont want her to know any diifernt exp since he was never good to me. I have no idea how to go about this... Do i just let him in, and if i do how? and how do i explain to my four year old who he is? and how many times should i allow him to see her? What do i do..Will she call my husband step dad ?