Michelle - posted on 01/30/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
Ok so I got divorced last sept from my son's father. Before that we were separated for about a year and 4 months. The father has not gave me any money when we were separated. I paid for the plane tickets so that my son could go see him and when we got divorced I asked that he pay $200 for child support instead of what they were asking for $400 because i new that they didn't have a lot of money ( he still lives with his mom, brothers and sisters.) because they were going through a tough time and still are. Now he doesn't call his son anymore. His excuse use to be that he couldn't talk and that he would call more often when he learned to talk. My son is now talking and is talking clear enough to the point where you can understand the sentence he is trying to make and still no call. I know that he loves his son very much but hasn't done anything to help me out which by the way is fine with me I don't care for his money. So he asked if we could put our son the taxes this year and the next year we would rotate and that's how it would be. I told him that I would willing to send him some of the money from that taxes if he really needs it that bad. What do you guys think?