Teen daughter 15 yrs old left me to live with her dad

Trina - posted on 11/28/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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My daughter had got into trouble and packed up moved in with dad. She says I'm to hard to live with. I yell all the time. Now she says has a new life. Seriously. What about me. The person who loves u more than herself. Never left you. There for everything. Oh more of those types of things
. I have a 5 year old son they have different fathers. I'm single live on government help at the moment. My sons dad has never lived with us only visits on weekends or when he wants.
I have severe depression among some other health issues. It's stressful. I guess life with my daughter was not like a normal teen should be. I tried tho.
I think that she really missed her dad and this was her opportunity to spend time before she's 18. She was daddy's girl until he got a girl pregnant about 5 years ago then her dad stopped coming around then she gained a stepmom stepsister half sister and half brother with her dad. She was almost completely out of his life. He would try to see her or call her but she ignored him.
I have only seen her 2xs since July. One at my sons bday and today thanksgiving. She didn't even msg me back today to let me know she was coming. Everyone else knew. My mom step sister step brother. Kinda frustrated me. Ok so I hugged her felt awkward. Tried to eat beside her but for some reason we didn't really talk. I was afraid. She left fairly early. Which sucked. I want her back but she looks happier lost weight taking care of herself. I think she's right I ruined her life I should have let her go when she was little to save her from me.
I feel as tho she has died. I cry I hurt the pain is so bad.
I don't know how to rebuild after the things she has said to me and ignoring me but not my mom or step sister. I'm left out.

Hope this makes since my mind is a mess

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