Abby - posted on 11/19/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
So my friend has a baby and she's 19. To be honest, I don't have a baby, I just made an account to get advice from other mothers. I really care about her and her baby a lot. She got pregnant when she was 18 and she's had it pretty damn easy. Telling her parents-easy. Getting bigger-easy. All the pains and morning sickness and everything else that sucks about pregnancy-almost nothing AT ALL. The birth-painless. And now the raising of her child-Too Damn Easy. She hasn't really struggled much so she doesn't feel like it's a big deal. After a couple months after having her baby, she went back to partying until 3-6am getting shit faced and having sex with other men while her mom was up taking care of her baby. And she doesn't care how many guys she sleeps with because she has like a Nuvaring or something. Her mom doesn't really say anything because then she'll just throw a fit and take the baby to wherever she'll stay for the night. All her friends and family want is for her to stop all this nonsense and grow up. She literally will leave her mom with the baby for days while she leaves town to go party. Now it's come to my attention that she moved in with the girl that she parties a lot with and the baby is staying with her mom. I love her and I want to tell her, in a nice way if possible, to grow the fuck up. And yes, I totally agree that mothers deserve a day off once in a while maybe even more, but not to this extent. I know when I confront her, she'll hate me forever but I really can't see her go the way she's going. What do I do? What do I say to her?