Sjnaumoff - posted on 02/21/2017 ( 13 moms have responded )
We recently found out our 13 year old daughter was having sex with her 16 year old boyfriend. They are both stright A students and excel in band. Their "dates" were supervised at my home or his. When she turned 14 we decided to let her ride to school with him in his car. I was concerned with the amount of physical contact and started snooping. Sadly I found out they had been having sex. I also found out his parents were allowing alot of physical contact and kissing at their home. What do I do now? They "feel" like they are in love. I don't want them to see each other but I don't want to sneak around behind my back either. We have asked for a 2 week no contact so they can think about what they have done and to come up with a plan to prevent it from happening again. She has lost her phone and is not to be anywhere unsupervised other than school. His parents seemed to be on the same page as us yet they have given their son his phone back and he is basically back to his life and it has been less than a week. We would prefer she make her own decision to not see him anymore but we don't know how to push her in that direction without making it an "us against them" thing. Help!