Joyce - posted on 03/11/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My 15-1/2hr old son, sweet, kind, humble, & giving has remained a@ his dysfunctional brooding father's house going on 3wks. He does not like my crazy &controlling boyfriend who he has seen hurt me in many forms of abuse since I became divorced. I am successful & very attractive and too kind so this man will not leave me alone and has made himself dispensable, going so as intentionally breaking major things I need such as putting water in my fuel tank He is a felon with an IQ of 140 & no one can stay ahead of him but the worst part is he is very angry & gets mad at anything I say. I am a forgiving pushover who has sheltered &spoiled my son resulting in an immature scared soul although his father is a very controlling highly functional, successful, bullying impossible to change alcoholic. He brainwashed me 14 yrs & now he is working on my son because he hates the boyfriend for good reason. The boyfriend brainwashed me. He tried to buy my son's love but has been cruel to us both. I can understand why my ex is upset but I didn't think he'd come unglued and not allow my frightened son to return home. My son said my boyfriend has to go & I have no problem with that. In fact I love being alone..very liberating after my boyfriend has tortured me (I am 7 yrs. older than him and he is manner less) Now my son is acting as if he hates me & my hurt has turned to anger. I decided to just back off & I will pick him up after spring break. Anyone's help & assistance greatly appreciated. Meantime I have filed actions of contempt against the ex husb for keeping him but the real problem is my son is afraid to come to his home.