Liz - posted on 05/05/2016 ( 24 moms have responded )
Hello, I am just looking for advice here. I am a mother of a girl that I had at the age of 15.At that age you can only imgiane the stupid decesiosn I've made. One for example was having a relation with 2 men during the same week. One was a "boyfriend" the other was a one time thing. Because of this stupid choise I have been living with the idea that my boyfriend at the time was the father of my child (but still in the back of my mind that it could be the other one, but doubted it very much). So after 8 years of child support searching for my ex and finally getting DNA i come to find out he is not the father.. so many years have past and I still can not tell my child who her father is. However, I did find the other man, and of course I want paternity done and the best way to do so is through child support. but by doing this he can ask for his rights or I CAN forget about child support (since I have done it on my own this far) and simpily reach out to this man and make him aware so I can finally make my daugther know, but either way I do he can seek for his rights and I wouldn't want my daugther in a situation that she wouldn't feel comfortable in. like going to a different state for a summer. or being aroung this guy she just found out is her father..