Candise - posted on 04/02/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
I'm torn between the two and I don't know what to do. I had a daughter who passed away 1 day after birth. A year later I had another daughter. Now she is 3 and she sees pictures of her sister on my computer and I don't know how to explain it to her. She has already learned it is her sister but when she asks questions about where she is and why she don't see her I dodge the questions. She almost 4 now and dodging is getting harder. We also have a 4 month old now. Should we tell them about her or will it cause unnessacary grief? We go see her on her birthday or rather her grave and until now our daughter wasnt old enough to understand.