Telling my 6 year old son about his biological father.

Jerrell - posted on 10/02/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I need your help moms!!!! I have a son that is 6 going on 7 in February. All his life he has known my ex to be his father. My ex has been there throughout my entire pregnancy and my son has both of our last names. But today I kept getting missed calls from an unknown number and when I picked up it turned out to be my son real father calling to let me know he just got out of jail. I met my son biological father and we started seeing each other. One thing lead to another and I ended up pregnant. The day I was going to let him know I was pregnant was the day he got locked up. I didn't hear from him again until I was about 7 1/2 months pregnant. By this time I was in a committed relationship with my ex and he stepped up and told me he wanted to help me raise my son like it was his own being that he didn't have kids. I have had contact with my sons real father through his mother and his sisters calling me on 3-way and asking about my son. I even sent my son down to DE with his biological family for two weeks when he was 1. Now that he is out I want to know the best way to tell my son and my ex that his real father wants to be in his life. And I also want to know how to tell my son's biological father that for 6 almost 7 years that my son thinks my ex is his biological father. What advice does anyone have? What's the best way to go about this crazy situation. Someone please help me.


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