Telling your child who their biological father truly is....

Brittany - posted on 10/28/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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About six years ago, I became pregnant with my son, and his biological father and I only last about a month. I was young and dumb and thought I was in love with him, enough to have sexual relations with him not thinking about the fact that I could indeed become pregnant. Well about a year later I met my husband and have been married to him for 4 years now and together for 5 years! My son's biological father has never been in the picture for these 6 years of his life, but my husband has been in my son's life for 5 years! So it's hard on my husband and me right now because we are in the process of doing the dna test and getting him involved with his biological father so we can put all of this behind us. But my son is 6 years old and only knows my husband which isn't his biological father to be his dad. How should I tell my son, the difference between my husband and his biological father, so that he may understand the truth and take it well?? I have been thinking about it for so long, it just kills me to think about how I might explain this to him in a way he could understand and feel loved through it all. And that it's not his fault.

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