Kahlie - posted on 10/17/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )
The father of my 5 year old son has not been around in years. he calls every once in a while when he gets a new girlfriend, and expects everything to be ok. He asks me to take him and talk to him on the phone. I refuse to let this happen because it confuses my son. i recently have given in to him and they were talking on the phone for a while and i even brought my son to see him a couple of times. things seemes like they were headed in the right direction and my son was very happy to finally spend time with him.
His father had asked me after about a month if he could take him overnight on a saturday. i said he could. he callled my son on friday and seemed very happy to take him and have him for the night but, his friends birthday was that saturday and decided that was more important and never called or came to pick him up.
Now as i said this has been going on for years and i just want him to sign over his rights so that my fiance (the man that has raised this little boy as his own) can adopt him. I know that my ex will refuse to do this.
I am wondering if anyone knows if there is anyway i can make this posssible being that he has been absent for so long?