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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/29/2016

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Oh, man...I'm spoiling for a good bitch fight too...LMAO...

Friggin hilarious. Promiscuity apparently is the new "modesty". It is apparently fashionable to sleep with so damn many people in one week that a person can't tell if they're coming/going/upside down/rightside up, and who the hell their multiple baby daddies are...and they get pissed at US for pointing that out.

FFS if these people would make better choices to begin with, they wouldn't wonder, now would they? I mean...I've never wondered who the father of MY kids were...

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/28/2016

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Seriously, if you'd stop bed hopping, you wouldn't have to worry.

We don't have a crystal ball. We don't know WHO your child's father is. Get a DNA test at birth.

Oh, and stop bed hopping.

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Sarah - posted on 04/30/2016

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Hey, Alexis, or deleted account or whomever; I warned you when I found your post buried in a five year old thread what to expect. I told you if you started a new thread you get told: we don't know who the dad is; have safe sex; don't have multiple partners. You are young, and pregnant with a lot to face ahead of you. Some good and some not so good; put on your big girl panties and use the advice you can use and leave the rest behind......

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/29/2016

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Alexis, your age is no excuse.

I would have given the same answer if you were 98, actually.

What makes people think that others are psychic? What makes people think that others aren't going to offer advice as well as opinions when things are put on a public international forum?

Alexis, my advice stands, ESPECIALLY now that I know your age. Stop bed hopping. You have SO much more life ahead of you to be tied down with kids from multiple mysterious guys! Would I have said the exact same things to my own child? Most certainly.

Dove - posted on 04/29/2016

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You know something... Shawnn has kids older than you are. I have kids slightly younger than you are... As a mother I would be horrified if my daughter were in your position... having sex w/ one man and the next day having sex w/ her boyfriend who just got out of jail?! Yeah... I'd be flipping out and it wouldn't be a pretty picture.

Granted, it is your life and these are your decisions... but now you've got a baby on the way. I hope you will take a long hard look at your life and your choices and think about what kind of life you would want for your child and what sort of choices you want him/her making.

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Well you know what im only 18 years old just turned 18 on april 27 pregnant with my first child and i was sure that it was my bf but just because i thought i could go to a website of mothers and not be judged by a situation no one knows about and they just will help and be grown about the problem and just freaking help or whatever but i gues not and shawn youre one heck of a person but just because you do not know my situation at all i will not even argue with you but every woman on here that answered my question and was nice about the fact that i did what i did thank you and thank you for not been like shawn but can some one help me deactivate this or tell me how? I would like to know Because This Is Not Something i thought was going to be good thank you shawn also. Idk for what but thank you

Dove - posted on 04/28/2016

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She cussed you out and threatened to find and harm you, Shawnn. I did not flag it, but either someone else flagged it or the OP had the good sense to remove it herself.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/28/2016

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I want to know as well. I simply stated truth and gave advice.

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Thank you dove and yes mam i understand but what the other young lady said was very rude but that you once again

Dove - posted on 04/28/2016

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Chill lady... You are violating THUMPS and if you don't change your attitude you won't be on CoM much longer. If one comment can make you fly off the handle that badly I recommend some serious counseling for anger management.

Dove - posted on 04/28/2016

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If you conceived in March, but only had sex w/ one guy in March... it would be that man's child. If your dates are off... who knows? It would probably be a good idea to get a paternity test when the baby is born just to remove all doubt... and I hope your boyfriend knows about the guy you had sex with the day before him... so you can all get tested for STDs.

Sarah - posted on 04/28/2016

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Did you have an ultrasound? That can date a conception to within 48 hours. Like I told you before, if you had a period and then had sex with only one man; he is likely the father. To clarify your gestational age is from the first day of your last period. Embryonic(fetal) age, is the actual age from conception. If both or fetal and gestational age match up to guy B and your activity with him, then he is likely the father. However; you really need a DNA test so everyone will know for sure.

Susie - posted on 04/28/2016

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your bf if you slept with guy A on feb 17th but had period feb 21st then it must be your bf.

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