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My Husband and I were married mid 2010 and 3 1/2 months later, by the grace of God and an angel of a judge, my adoption of his 3 biological children was final! Life was Fantastic! (I am unable to have children and so these are our only 3.)
His ex-wife, my children's birth mother, left in early 2005 when my youngest was not even a year old (she's now 8), my son has very little memory of her and my oldest was 5 and hates that she can remember her. Their birth mother left them for drugs, alcohol and another man. She refused contact with the children throughout the divorce, after the divorce and all the way up until we got married (when she read about it in the paper 2 weeks later).
She then willingly met with me, my husband and my in-laws (mother-in-law is a notary) and signed her rights over to me so I could file for adoption. 45 days later, it was final and my children were mine.
Ever since the adoption was final, she will not quit calling my husband or my mother-in-law! She even left her husband for a time to come back here to try to get my husband and children back and had someone who knew where we lived drive her there! If I block her number, she changes it or uses someone else's phone. She's called more in the last 1 1/2 yrs than she has in the past 7 yrs since she's been gone and SHE GAVE THEM UP!
My husband is too nice of a guy to yell at her and just keeps asking her to stop calling. My mother-in-law hangs up on her! My kids are getting scared because they don't want her calling or driving by our new home. My husband is getting upset with me now because I want to press charges against her for harassment.
I need some advise please