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Very very brief background... The father of my soon to be 3 children is about to have another child. The child should be here in the next couple of weeks. We had split up for a while and he managed to get her pregnant. She has tried to sabotage our relationship ever since we've been back together.
Anyway. After our discussions, he has decided to be a part of his son's life, with my encouragement. Since things are getting closer we recently discussed how things will go when his son is born, and he said he would be going up to the hospital. I told him I am uncomfortable with him going by his self. Then he responded by asking, kind of not serious, if I wanted to go. And I said no at first. But now I am wondering why i wouldn't. This child will forever be a part of my life. Wjy should I be left out. But then again, i have never seen this woman face to face, but we have exchanged words. I am just needing advice from other women. I know this is her baby, and her birthing experience. I am just not comfortable with them soending time together. Idk. I just need advice.