Carmen - posted on 12/11/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )
Hey everyone, I just wan to know if I did the right thing....so today my daughter dad was going to get her today so they can spend time with each other. So I said okay, so he texts back saying bring some diapers...I text back and said no you don't have diapers..why don't you have diapers. He respond backs saying okay what size, I say 4, he's like I have a size 5(he only have that size because his son wears that size), so I said okay well that will have to do, I'll be there soon. Then that's when he said They' re PULL UPS. bring some diapers. So I didn't respond back. So then maybe a hour later he called I was busy handling some business..so as I was on my way to his place he text bye. Don't make me come to your crib. So I'm like was that threat so I went to my cousin house. .when I called back he like why you didn't answer and where my baby at..I said I was on the phone and she's here with me. so he was trying to figure out I was at but I didn't let him know because I don't want him bringing any drama to my cousin house. So I agree to meeting him somewhere but wait while this was happening he was calling me out my name calling me a basic bum B*tch and a hoe and why would he buy some diapers and he don't have her often. (I said I'm going to go because you talking to me crazy and I hung up on him)...so I texted him and I said I will not continue to communicate with you if you don't know how to talk to me. so he text me with the emoji's ok and duecus.
So I'm thinking that it's his responsibility to get things for his home when his daughter comes over. it doesn't how often you get her you need those things for just in case moment when you do. I will not continue to let him talk to me disrespectful and call me out my name and bow down to him...in my eyes life does not work like that. You can't talk to anyone disrespectful and then want them to do something for you.