The doctors could've had save my baby. I'am. RH negative

Maya - posted on 02/10/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I was 7 weeks an 5 days pregnant I'm also 21 years old. I had barely woken up on a Tuesday and I went to the bathroom I was bleeding I rush quick to the ER with my mom. I had been waiting 3 hours till the doctors check on me finally they did they said my cervix was close and did blood work on me it was completely normal to bleed but to rest. The doctors also told me to call a OB asap and make appointment this week I did call right away. I told them what had happen to me they said sorry we can't check on you till 3 more weeks there was no more room for me. That week on a Friday I started to cramp more and still bleeding. I went to a normal
Doctor and she told me that my cervix was a little open that I might have a miscarriage she send me right away to do blood work but all they told me is that everything was fine and to come back Monday for more blood work. That Saturday my mom drove me 45 mins away from out town to another town to we got to the ER and the check me so fast and they where way nice. I told them what had happen witch he started over and did blood test and check me he told me I was having a miscarige and there was nothing he could do I was crying so I sign the papers to leave. I was crying so then I get a call that I need to come ASAP back to the hospital my mom turns around freaking out my doctor was waiting for me at the door he said he needed to give me a shot right now because if I didn't get the shoot I
Could never have baby's because I was RH negative that's when he told me that he went back an check my blood work and that what made me
Have a miscarriage. If the doctors from my town would have pay more attention to me that Tuesday my baby would've survive it's sad that doctors do everything so fast to
Try to get more people in to make money. I'm so depressed and lonely I need good vibes my heart is broken.

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Jodi - posted on 02/10/2014

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You can't know that your baby would have survived. You were bleeding already, it may already have started dying at that point. I am really sorry for your loss, but miscarriages are very common - around 25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage, and there really is often nothing that can be done. However, now that they know this is an issue for you, they can manage your next pregnancy appropriately.

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Jane - posted on 02/12/2014

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yup he does .. I had a best friend who lost her daughter at 6 and my nephew was a still born death is hard but it must be celebrated... so just look forward and think positive :)

Maya - posted on 02/12/2014

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Thank you so much Shena. You are completely right. I'm doing better everyday I know god has diffirent plans for me.

Jane - posted on 02/10/2014

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aww love im so sorry this happened.. but see it this way everything really does happened for a reason god had better plans for your little baby in heaven♥

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