Stephanie - posted on 12/08/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
My husband and I have a beautiful (handsome) baby boy. It is hard to believe that he is almost (3) three. My husband has been on Military Deployment for the last (18) eighteen months. He finally arrived home this past Friday and we did all of the normal family kisses and hugs and telling our (3) three year old that this is Daddy. Once all of the excitement died down and all of the relatives and friends went home, we put our son to bed in his bed in his own room, he immediately fell asleep from all of the days activities. My husband had what I will refer to as Bedroom Eyes and after quickly showering and checking to make sure our son was asleep my Husband lit multiple candles around the room so we could see each other and then laid down on the bed while I personally shut and locked our bedroom door.
One thing lead to another and the next thing I knew we were engaged in making love. It had been so long that we both really wanted and needed the physical release. And trust me when I say it was very physical. I had forgotten what a wonderful lover my husband is. We both released multiple times and with all the commotion who knows where the covers had gotten off to. Then all of a sudden, something did not seem quite right. My husband and I could see, in the candle light, at the exact same moment that the door I had shut and locked was standing wide open and we could also see that there was no one standing in it. We started to scramble to locate anything to cover up with, a towel, sheet, bed spread, our clothes, anything at all. That's when to our horror we see (2) two big wide bright shiny eyes looking at us not only nude but with fluids all over our nude bodies. Yep, it was our son and he apparently had been there a while because he began drilling us with questions.
What were you and Daddy doing?
Why was Daddy biting you between your legs?
Did it hurt? Then why did you sound like it hurt?
We used some pretty foul language to tell each other what we wanted and even how hard and deep we wanted it. Listening to our son ask what the words meant and why we had said them was a lot like listening to a recording of what we had done and said and then explaining it to your Mother and Father. Embarrassing to say the least.
Now my husband is afraid to make love to me because our son might see or hear something. We have no one to watch him so we can have alone time and my husband will need to go back on deployment right after Christmas. I have been totally faithful to him but, I need for him to make love to me for all the time he has been gone and for the future while he is gone again. I'm not a Saint and I have physical needs. I honestly can't imagine going much longer without him taking care of me without my Will power breaking down and here on base I have plenty of opportunities to take care of this if he can't or won't.
Is it horribly bad if a kid walks in on or hears his parents making love?
Any suggestions of how we can have sex with our son here without him knowing it?
I can take care of my husband with a BJ but, I need to be taken care of too, any suggestions?
Do you think our Son's walking in on us this time may has caused him any future problems?