Tish - posted on 07/13/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )
My son went to spend 10 days with his dad in the holidays.
It's come back to me from my son of 13 that my ex's wife had cornered him and started bad mouthing me and saying that he better be careful he'll turn out to be like me.
She also told him that I must stop asking for money as they don't have it. This is so utterly untrue as I only ask for the support for his education and the maintenance that he has to pay according to the court order. I have never asked for more than what has been necessary for my son. We have had issues where he has not bothered to pay at all and I have literally had to beg him to pay the maintenance.
I haven't responded to all this, as I am not sure how to deal with it. It's made me very angry that she is getting our son involved in utter nonsense and issues he has no need to be involved in.
My ex had an affair with her when I fell pregnant with our son. She was one of my best friends at the time. He then married her after she fell pregnant.
I was very hurt about the break up and the affair, but have I have moved on and have a wonderful life, with amazing friends and family in my life.