Cherry - posted on 06/11/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )
I need your advice here! I have 2 young children with this man and we are not married. He also has 2 other children with 2 other women from previous relationships. Those 2 women are both single. He said he wants to be with me forever but he will not marry me unless the mothers of his other 2 children get married. The reason he stated is that he doesn't want to abandon his other 2 children. He believes by marrying me he will have to spend less time with his other children and it's unfair to them. He said his goal is to raise all his children well. My question is: should I leave him and find my happiness elsewhere? I do want marriage but at the same time I also want to raise my children well.