the loss of a baby and how to deal.

Abby - posted on 07/21/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I just lost my son Gino May 7th 2014 he was just 3 months old. I'm having such a hard time with this because I'm the one who found him passed away in his bassinet and, had to give him CPR! I can't sleep at night and, I'm so depressed and emotionally drained. I know I need help because this is really hard on me. I have never seen a person who has passed away before let alone my baby! I feel so lost and like a piece of me went with him! I already have ptsd from my car accident and now it's just getting worse! Does anyone have any advice for me? Who do I need to see for help?


Gena - posted on 07/21/2014




I am so so sorry for your loss! I cant imagine the huge amount of pain you have. He left to be an angel on my birthday. I would advice you to seek therapy so you can talk. You can go to your doctor and tell them how you feel and ask for a good therapist. Ptsd is bad, do you have ways to cope? My little sister died in my arm when i was 16,she was 10yrs old. I went to a therapist but honostly i stopped going because that person wasnt helping me. We (my second youngest sister) and i then went to a lady psychologist and she was great! We could speak so well with her. My mom also went to a therapist.
I wish you alot of strength,good luck and send you big hugs! I hope you will find a good therapist!

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