The New Wife in our Lives

Anne - posted on 05/24/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Three years ago my ex husband started dating seriously with a specific woman, who I met at my sons birthday party. From that day, it has been chaos. I was no longer "allowed" to attend my sons birthday parties (my son was living with his Dad). Then when my ex and his then girlfriend moved in together, I was not allowed to know where they were living and had to have my ex mother in law's place as a point of mediation, because apparently I am wanting this information, because I am nosy. Through many tears and much prayer I have got my son living with me and this was achieved through no courts or legal process, but rather an act of absolute destruction by the now new wife. I thought, great, I can now have my son and things can be relitively normal. But she is unrelenting, she send e-mails, to my ex-mother in law verbally abusing me because I have a relationship with my ex's family and my childs family. She calls me on a private number everytime that her and my ex argue. Not sure if she thinks that he might be talking to me.....she has stalked me on facebook and slandered me because I went back to my original blonde hair colour. I have no idea what to do anymore? I went to the police but there is nothing they can do, as no laws have been broken


KeRashawn - posted on 05/24/2013




I have this same problem, except mines is completely the other way around. I am the New Wife with the "babymomma" drama. It is exactly this way. Furthermore to add on, this has been going on for 3 years. Since our relationship started. Since then, we also have a child together who is now 8 months, and she STILL has that jealous thing going on. What I can tell you I have learned from being in this situation is to simply "IGNORE" her. The more she sees that you are NOT paying attention to the childishness, then she actually got the MEMO.

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