THE OTHER WOMEN!!!!!

Christina - posted on 08/20/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Hi ladies, i have a very big problem. My babies father is dating a women with 4 kids from 3 different guys and she has just informed me that she has rites to my daughter seeing she is with her father. I tried to explain things to her but shes not getting it. How do you deal with the other women??? I dont want her around my lil girl. What do i do???

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Christina - posted on 08/21/2012

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Ya i think its come to this. Court it is. I dont want to but i have to for the safety of my daughter.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/21/2012

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Well, it is not your daughter she feels threatened by, it is you. If you are having that many issues with payment and visits, I would not hesitate to bring it to the courts. That way they you can minimize your contact with him, and deal straight through the lawyer or mediator.

Christina - posted on 08/21/2012

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I know i hate her because of what she has done to me and my daughter but i really do you feel he cant take care of our daughter. Hes never taken our daughter or paid for her. Hes more of a dead beat kind of father. She just doesnt help the situation seeing that shes now saying if and when he see my daughter she has to be there. We live in two different cites and i drive her to see her dad and his family every other weekend. I dont leave her alone with him cuz he doesnt know what to do with her.

He says he wants to see his daughter but she just keeps getting in the middle of his visits. Its just very sad that she feels threat by a lil girl.

I just dont know how to keep communication open with him and I regarding our daughter and to keep my feeling and thoughts out of it

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/21/2012

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BTW, SHE doesn't have ANY rights. HE does, and by default if they are living together, she is exposed to your daughter. BUT she has NO legal rights to your child.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 08/21/2012

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I am sure that is part of your frusteration, that THIS is the women he cheated with. I hate to say it, but if they are living together, there is no way for you to control her being around your daughter. Do you feel she or your ex is a threat to your daughter? I mean a real threat. If so , you may be able to sit down with your lawyer and figure out new custody agreements.

Honestly, her personal situation of having multiple dads for her children has nothing to do with anything. I understand you are just giving background information, but that does not make any difference in custody agreements.

Christina - posted on 08/21/2012

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Morning Chaya,

I just wish she could grow up and be an adult. I mean she is a women, a mom i just don't get how she doesn't get my concerns. I guess i should have known what i was going to be dealing with since he cheated on me with her and when she found out she was still ok with it. Its just very frustrating .

Thank you for msg me

Chaya - posted on 08/20/2012

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Tell her to stay away, she has no rights to your child no matter what.get a restraining order if necessary, offer no apologies to dad, he made his bed, he can lie in it

Christina - posted on 08/20/2012

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I hate this part Michelle. It suck!!
I tried to talk to her like a human being but its didnt work
i dont know what to do im so concerned for my daughter

Michelle - posted on 08/20/2012

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Unfortunately not much you can do if she is there when your ex has your daughter he has a right to see whomever he pleases and can introduce her to your little girl, just as you can do the same when she is with you.

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