Brett - posted on 07/28/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hi everyone, my name is Brett and I am trying to re-connect with my children, and am trying to do it with out hurting my ex-wife. I have not seen my to children in close to three years. My $320 in weekly child support has always been paid. Its a complicated situation. I had struggled with alcohol and cocaine for the past 10 years. 3 years ago, I had relapsed after three years of sobriety. I agreed with my mother not to see the children for awhile, mostly because i was not being consistant. I would get some sober time then struggle this went on for quite some time. I have been sober now for 6 months and seriously working AA and seeing a child counselor on my own. I miss my children so much and always have. I cried every birthday etc. but it is not about me. It is about what is right for my to children. My mother is a very strong Italian women and pretty much controls the family. She is very happy with my Sobriety but now is saying your ex-wife does not want you to see them, they have her boyfriend in the picture, and she is saying they are not asking about me. I feel as if I should be fighting to see my children yet I don't want to cause any more pain to them. I guess I am just looking for the right way to go about this because the ex-wife has been extremely bitter since our divorce seven years ago... If I text her I pretty much get an F.U. back literally.