Kyleigh - posted on 07/20/2011 ( no moms have responded yet )
In almost several years 3 1/2 we are finally seeing eye to eye. Its the best feeling ever. I know she will have her moments of just agreeing with myself and listening and retaining, but thats all on her. Its getting better between all of this mess that my ex has bestowed upon me. We had mediation this past Monday with a couple of people who were taking notes and its sorta like family therapy, things are going more smoothly than ever. Although my ex is showing some resentment, but its all noted on his behalf. I just see me and his girlf, getting along, but i feel so bad shes putting up with some verbal abuse and emotional, she hasnt told me quite yet physical but she did indicate she might just leave he doesnt straighten up.
I didnt once tell her to do anything, thats her business, just like her telling me about him, i dont want to do anything to upset her but if she wants to talk about some things she can.
Hows the relationship with you and your ex ? My neighbor girl has some similar issues at stake but she and i are starting to talk more so than ever. im just glad i have a few girls to talk to but i stay busy with my 4 kiddos