The system is wrong

Lu - posted on 11/27/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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Looking for advice,I'm going through court at the min trying to protect my son from his 'dad' and his family! Our relationship was awful abuse mentally and physically to me and my two sons! (One son not his)since splitting iv had more abuse and threats! Resulting in me having to uproot my two children! I'm backwards and forwards at court,he wants access! But only to get to me! He's a drug user and both him and his family are bad news,I as a mother no my son would be in danger both physically and mentally! He had had some supervised contact but broke various rules and continued to threat that he will take him away when he gets the chance unsupervised ! The system is ridiculous! And doesn't seem to understand my fears! I am happy for supervised but until my son is at an age to decide for himself and to tell me if he has been at harm (mentally or physically) I don't see how it's in his best interest! Does anybody no if I stick to my guns for no unsupervised can they force it??

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Lu - posted on 11/27/2013

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I've done all if tht,they just arnt interested! He's been on his last warning four times! It's crazy and wrong! X

[momoftwo] - posted on 11/27/2013

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Wow, that is ridiculous. I think it's time to start calling the cops when they threaten you and take screenshots and printout your convos for the judge to read.

Lu - posted on 11/27/2013

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Because I didn't go to the police 'enough'!! The court had said Thers isn't enough proof! Ax for the drugs he has been asked to do a drug test by the judge and refused,and hasn't been pushed or forced to do it! Him and his family are still threatening me but the system is just all for fathers rights!! It's insane what about a mothers right to protect her child!! X

[momoftwo] - posted on 11/27/2013

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All I know is that if you can prove he is a drug user, is mentally and physically abusive to you and your kids you should be fighting for soul custody and a restraining order because that family does sound psycho.
Never underestimate what crazies can do.

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