Emilija - posted on 07/27/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )
I got divorced four years ago. The children get to see their father whenever they want to, however, in general they spend 2 weekends in the month with him. My problem is that every time they go away for the weekend they come back home at least once. It is always something like: I forgot the laptop, I need to pick up the clothes etc. etc. This means that I can't organize anything because I'm not sure they won't just appear at the door. To be honest, it is not a problem, I spend most of my time alone at home anyway, but I am really pissed off that he is using the children to stop me from having a private life. What would you do in this situation?