Thinking of dating someone new. Need advice: help?

Kayla - posted on 11/17/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )

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This is very complicated. The whole time I was pregnant, I was dating another guy. He knew the kid wasn't his but he still loved me and was planning on staying with me. The last 2 months though, I started talking to the baby daddy and decided to go back to him. I thought it was the right thing to do. It's been two years and my ex and I have never stopped loving each other. Recently, me and the baby daddy broke up. The baby daddy(Adam) wants me back, but I have a hard time leaving b/c I know he will hurt sooooo much.

Until recently, I was confused. I realize I do love Adam (baby daddy) but I am IN LOVE with Clancy (the ex). Of course I'll love Adam, we have a kid together and he is the BEST father our son could ask for, hands down. We just aren't too compatabile together. But I can just see him breaking down...Adam broke up with me and wants me back but I can't bear to see him so sad...

But I wan't Clancy. I know what I want, but I know i'm going to hurt someone in the process.

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Elfrieda - posted on 11/17/2011

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Maybe you should take a break from dating for a year or so and focus on other things. It's never a good idea to go from one relationship straight into another, and your son needs stability.

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Kayla - posted on 11/17/2011

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Oh, yeah. I totally wasn't planning in dating anytime SOON. Me and my ex are just talking again. We've been hanging out, just as friends, nothing more. We're taking things slow and not getting "involved". But if it does come down to it later on this year and we do end up dating...I just feel bad thinking about how Adam will feel. I'm super empathetic and it really sucks sometimes and messes with my mind. =/

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