This is Jessica Normand I have question that has been weighing on my mind for about a yr now... But now its coming down to the time i need to make a decision.I have a almost 11 yr old girl and 8 yr old boy.But we have been thinking about having another baby I'm almost 31.My husband will have to have vasectomy reversal.My girl wants the baby really bad but my son isn't really all for it.I just keep thinking about my children are that age and im gonna be starting from scratch so to speak lol.But everytime I think about now bringing another wonderful baby in our family it breaks my heart. So here is the question well its not really a question but some advice from other moms.I really want a baby but my children are 11 and 8 and we will have to get the surgery and im 31.What do yall think??? Thanks so much for any advice y'all can give.Is there any moms out there that has asked them self's the same question?


~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/05/2012




I don't think you should be basing having another child off of what your kids want. They are not going to be raising the baby, or supporting it financially. Your husband got a vasectomy for a reason, and be 100% sure that this is what YOU and your HUSBAND want. The kids will adjust either way. I have 2 kids, and that is enough for me. I had my tubes tied, and will NOT get that reversed. It is up to you as the parents. it is nice that you want to inform your children, but it is not their decision to make.

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