This is your life

Connie - posted on 06/26/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have been through pretty much everything in life. And the only thing I know is to stay strong and positive. If your ex is a cheater. Then stand up and put or foot down let him know that your not going to take it. Never let him have that much power.

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Jodi - posted on 06/27/2013

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You CHOSE to take offence. That was your choice. You can't blame others for the way you perceive the world. Any psychologist will tell you that if you are offended by someone's words that were not intended to offend you, then you control and own that. It is the internet. You cannot interpret and perceive tone. If you get offended by something you perceive as insulting on the internet that was not intended that way, then maybe you are the one with the issue?

I am not even sure I understand the point of your post anyway.

Connie - posted on 06/27/2013

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You know unless you know the whole story lived thru and walked in my shoes. I think if this is a positive website an a place for woman to feel comfortable at. I know the truth of my life. But when I read your comment. "Not sure why my comment is so offensive". Right there. You said it. "Not sure why my ". You are only hearing your words the way you want to hear them. We are all different an i read your words differently.

Jodi - posted on 06/26/2013

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???? Not sure why my comment is so offensive. It's just the truth. I'm sure there are many people who have gone through much more. I am one of those people who remains positive by recognising the problems I go through are first world problems. It could always be worse. Until you have lived your life fully, you can't say you have experienced everything in life.

I AM sorry your ex cheated on you. It sucks, and I was genuinely encouraging you to stay strong.

Sorry you took offence.

Connie - posted on 06/26/2013

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It's comments like yours why I never joined one if these sites before. Thanks for encouragement.

Jodi - posted on 06/26/2013

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Unless you are 100, I doubt you have been through pretty much everything. However, sorry you have clearly been through so much. Stay strong.

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