Thought by now things would be good and life would be good

Sandra - posted on 08/28/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I have 3 children, two girls and a boy. Boy is 23 and girls are 18 and 20. Both my son and youngest daughter have gotten involved into drugs, although my son is a whole lot worse. My daughter says she doesnt do it anymore and she wasnt into anything serious. My son who has just sep. from girl friend and son is living with me and we clash and every turn. He is the type that wears his pants down around his ass not his hips. When he first came here i bought him about 300 dollars worth of cloths and a bed, mattress, bedding etc. I give him a cpl dollars every week (not much cause I don't have it) might be 20 to 40. They both smoke alot of weed and I guess where my son is coming off heavy drugs it helps but I take care of children which I very much enjoy but now i constantly have to worry about him having weed downstairs and the smell coming up and I think it also looks awful going around with his ass hanging out. There is so much more to this but I just needed to vent. I told him because I have high blood pressure and he is causing me so much stress he has to move out. Now i'm the worse mother in the world and I'm kicking my son out on the streets. I'm constantly told i'm XXXXXX in the head. I just don't know what to do. Thanks

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Sandra - posted on 08/29/2013

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thanks evlyn..yes i know that and he most def. never would do his weed while the kids are around but unfortunately the smell of weed stays around. We but heads so often even by the way he dresses lol. I never thought i would get a response from anyone. thank you and btw he has gotten an apt and is moving on monday...so pls say a prayer for me that this happens. Thanks so much sometimes it so nice to vent.

Ev - posted on 08/29/2013

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If you are watching kids, then how could you allow him to come live with you knowing he could most likely be using drugs no matter what they are? Why did you buy him all that money in clothes, bed and bedding? He is 23 years old! If he can not take care of himself, that is not your worry anymore. You do not need that in your house. By doing this you enable him. Giving him some change each week also helps enable him. He needs to go. Or else you are going to have more to worry about than your blood pressure problems. You have others children in your care....you could loose that.

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