Amanda - posted on 04/24/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
ive been in court system 6 yrs...it horrid painful and stressful. I have final court orders I place since 2011. they not working as father breaches all the orders. ive tried to ignore it..but it getting worse. I have now filled initiating application to get full custody with day visits. at moment he gets 4 days fornight and half holidays. He has a restaining order not to give our 7yr old medication or take him to doctor without my written permission. and he to use one doctor. despite this he does as he pleases..he gets anti biotics for him but then don't give it him or convey any details to me. my son has to talk medciation prescribed but dad don't give it...hence my son keeps getting sick.
hence ive taken it back to court. so that I can protect our son. im a nurse and fully aware of dangers or not giving medication or not finishing meds ordered.
he also don't take him to school in his care a lot.
there is also an order to provide me passport he has to sign he refuses so we cant go on holidays.
the man is very controlling
I sought lawyer who is good straight to point. she says you have orders....why risk changing them as you never know what judge does. she states will he die for the time he with dad....will he miss out on school or is dad just wanting more time with son..
this has all confused me and I wonder if I should just drop it all and rise above it and ignore his behaviour.
love to hear your thought