Jewell - posted on 09/21/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )
Ok, so this is probably a no brainer but I tschoI just need validation from people who dont know me. I have A son who just
turned 18 and graduated high school. He is a great kid maybe he is too laid back and maybe sometimes lazy. He is working anywhere from 20-40 hours a week (working 3-11) sometimes till 12 or 1. Prior to this he hung out alot at home playing video games. My fiancee is x marine 22 years and is very structured, blunt etc. He lecrures alot and expects everything to be neat at all times. If u say ur gonna be there at 5 u better be there. U cant change ur mind or it causes tension. Anyways, he is very loving at times but seems like as soon as my kids come in the room his attitude changes. He over analyzes facial expressions, expects conversation from the kids... to be some initiated by them. He currently has my son paying 100.00 rent and he does pay me his car insurance monthly. He plans on starting college in jan. My fiancee dont want him playing games at our house (video games) he dont want him playing video games at his friends. He dont want him sleeping till late afternoon. He wants him to work more than 20 hours a week. He says if he only gets low hours that my son should go and find another job. He often makes comments that my son can start paying 300.00 a month for rent. When I disagreed... he said my son can move out. Now my daughter 16... he hates that she dont wanna talk to him, he says she is always in a mood, she has to not have a mood look on her face. Meanwhile just recently he was lecturing her and ttold her she sucks at cross country,and that she can move out and go live with her dad... who I divorced due to pill addiction. She is in 11th grade... my kids arent perfect but they get up everyday for school and work and hang out with good kids. I probably just answered my own question. None of usare truley happy and I keep thinking I can change him. He is very loving to me and then complains about my kids constantly!!! Please send advise. .. I need to get strong again. Thanks for reading. Sincerely.... depressed , hurting, confused!!!!