To move on or move forward

Jenny - posted on 08/28/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Moving out of boyfriends house....im scared to do this single mom thing again on my own financially. But we want to be closer to her school and and my work. I don't want to regret leaving and breaking up..how do you know when its the right or wrong thing to do i have no way pulling me either direction.I just dont feel it anymore with him....ppl are saying i should stay cause shes happy and in a house...

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Michelle - posted on 08/28/2014

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Unless both of you are willing to work hard at the relationship then it's would be better to move on. Keep in mind that you can't change someone so if you really aren't compatible now the chances are you won't be in the future either.
My Grandmother told me that you should never stay just for the children, her parents did and she said it wasn't a very pleasent house to grow up in. In the short term you may think it's the right thing but children need their parents to be happy and sometimes that means being single or apart from a partner that isn't right for them.

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Jenny - posted on 08/28/2014

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no he is not her dad we've only been together a year. who knows we have no communication.....he is beyond quiet

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